I can see that you are looking at her with that look again. You are struggling to let go of the most precious thing that you have. Just look at those eyes that bring brightness to every room.
Take a look at those sweet lips that you have been kissing every night. Look how strong, independent and firm she is. She is smart, beautiful and a good person.
She is every man’s dream. And you have her completely.
It is too bad that you don’t know to cherish her and give her the love she deserves. Because you know that she deserves it all. She is simply a woman to love but you don’t see that.
I Forgive You Because My Soul Deserves Peace
Or maybe she didn’t capture your heart enough so you could love her insanely? Or you are just pretending that she is guilty of all your problems?
Whatever the problem might be, deep down you know that you can’t make her happy.
With you she won’t get the love she deserves. You know that she deserves a better man than you, so why are you still holding her so tight?
Let her go so she can finally find her happiness. Be man enough and grit your teeth while letting her go.
The Reminder Each Zodiac Sign Deserves At The Beginning Of This Year
I know it will hurt you to leave her but trust me it will hurt her more if she stays with you. Why can’t you just admit to yourself that you couldn’t make her happy? Just get over it once and for all.
Leave her with her pain because it will make her stronger. Don’t call and don’t text her. Leave her alone-that is the least that you can do for her.
Deep down you know that she invested more in your relationship than you did. You just weren’t ready to give her all the love that she deserved. You didn’t love her enough to actually change because of her.
So, why put up with this agony anymore? It will be better for both of you if you leave her. You know why? Because you will learn a life lesson and you will know whether something is love when you hook up with another girl.
On the other hand, she will probably find the love of her life and finally get what she deserves.
The Reminder Each Zodiac Sign Deserves At The Beginning Of This Year
With a little bit of luck, she will find a guy who will find her perfect on her worst days. The one who will love her even if she will be the unlovable one.
The one who will lose his breath every time he sees her. The one whose heart will beat faster when she puts her head on his chest.
That guy will be worth the wait. He will make her dreams come true and with him she will feel complete.
This is a guy who will accept her with all her flaws like you never did and who will give her credit for the things she did. He will make her heart heal and ready to love again.
He will kiss every scar and every crack that you made on her fragile heart.
And with him, she will feel alive again. This time she will feel all that happiness and energy that she missed so much in a relationship with you.
She will feel that one heart beats for her and that it will always be there. Because in the end, she got what she craved so much.
She became someone’s perfect woman. She finally found someone who can love her like she needs. She found a better man than you.
Because that is what she deserves. Someone better!
The obvious….isn’t always so obvious! You’re about to discover 5 signs he getting it on with another woman!
The best place to hide something is in plain sight. That’s the trick!
Nobody expects people to do awful deeds out in the open.
Secret relationships appear innocent when they are camouflaged by open interactions.
There’s a natural tendency to dismiss things that happen right under our nose.
You’re about to see 5 SIGNS HE GETTING IT ON WITH ANOTHER WOMAN!
Trust me, you’re in the right place!
Especially if you want straight talk.
He’s got another woman… and it’s time you know!
It’s time to face the truth!
I’m breaking the man code by giving you some private information, but it will help free you from the torture of not knowing.
You’re unsettled, worried, wondering, tired and frustrated.
I know the pain.
I’ve felt it too…
The fact is…You’ve gone long enough, trying to protect yourself from the pain you fear.
For years, I suspected my wife was seeing another man.
Don’t wait as long as I did before doing something about it.
Time waits for no one!
When it’s gone, there is no way to get it back.
So let’s cut the chase!
To catch a cheating partner, click here!
You want answers…
Let’s get into it!
Suspect He’s Cheating?
It is what has led here…
Your internal warning system gives you an extraordinary ability to sense when something is awry.
It’s clear, you haven’t ignored it.
It’s time to confirm your intuition.
You’re tired of hearing lame excuses.
It’s high time you find out the truth.
YOU DESERVE IT!
There’s only one thing worse than finding out he’s got another woman.
Suspecting he has one…
You’re constantly wondering…
- Where he is?
- What he’s doing?
- Why he hasn’t called?
- Is he with another woman?
You call his cell phone.
It rings and rings; no answer.
You call back. no answer.
Your mind shifts into overdrive and begins to suspect…
He’s seeing another women!
He has always answered your calls before, but lately not so much.
All signs point to another woman being in the picture.
How To Find Out If He’s Got Another Woman
You want to know the truth!
He will not volunteer any information.
The good news is…
You’re about to find out for yourself!
5 Signs He Got Another Woman
Actions never lie!
If he is seeing another woman, it will show.
Pay attention and be willing to accept the obvious.
I will help you take a very measured approach to getting the information you need.
There is a discreet way to find out who your partner is communicating with over the phone.
Technology makes it possible, click here to see how!
5 Signs He Getting It On With Another Woman
HERE ARE THE SIGNS YOU NEED TO LOOK FOR!
- He starts spending less time with you.
All of a sudden he’s spending more time at work or out with friends, etc. (These are usually an excuse to spend more time with the other woman). Especially, if this is not the norm.
- He can’t be reached.
He starts keeping his whereabouts secret. You don’t know where he is, who he’s with, etc. (He doesn’t answer your phone calls or he responds hours or days later). Usually this means he is spending time with the other woman so he will ignore your calls.
- Sex becomes less frequent and different.
You’re sexual connection changes in terms of frequency and passion.
For men, the only thing better than sex with the same woman is sex with a different one.
- He is unusually nice and more accommodating than ever.
This happens when he feels guilty about seeing another woman. It happens more often than you think, so be aware of unusual acts of kindness, especially following “ a night out with the boys “.
- His appearance becomes high priority.
Remember when you guys first started dating? He was always well groomed and well dressed every time you got together. The same holds true when he starts seeing another woman.
ANY OF THESE (5) SIGNS LOOK FAMILIAR?
When he leaves for the other woman, what do you do? How can you let go when your heart hurts so much? The end of a relationship is always difficult, especially when you’re the one being left behind.
That’s what it feels like. You feel that your husband has moved on while you’re still clinging to the past, wondering what went wrong and why this happened. Honestly, you may never find the answers to those last two questions, but you can learn how to let go.
Understand That It’s Not Your Fault
The first thing that you need to realize is that it’s not your fault. You’re not to blame and there is likely nothing that you could have done differently to have prevented him from leaving.
In the end, everyone is responsible for their own decisions. Your husband leaving is not your fault. It was their decision to leave. So, there’s no use in trying to put the blame on yourself.
Come to Terms with the Grieving Process
Next, you should understand that a lot of the feeling that you’re experiencing fall into the grieving category. You’re grieving for the end of your relationship. The longer the relationship the longer this process may take.
This is similar to the grieving process for any other loss and you’ll likely go through the 5 stages of grief:
Relationships can be painful. It can be hard to let go when things go bad. But, it is too easy to dwell on the past. This is why it is often so hard to move on. However, there are ways to ease the grieving process.
Dealing with Denial
Denial is when you cannot accept the fact that the relationship is over. You will continue to ask yourself why things happened the way that they did.
Unfortunately, you may never know the answer. You need to accept this. Tell yourself that it isn’t your fault. You are simply experiencing grief.
By making this realization, you can take the steps necessary to move on. Stop telling yourself that he will come back or that this is all just a crazy nightmare. Stop denying the truth.
Redirecting Your Anger
Anger is also just as common. To a certain level, this anger is completely understandable. And, you can’t bottle it up. You need to find an outlet for your anger, such as a new hobby or activity to help relieve stress.
Boxing is a fun way to get your anger out. Hitting a punching bag as hard as you can while imagining the face of your ex on the bag can be therapeutic.
Bargaining with Your Ex
You may also be tempted to get back in touch with your ex. When you still hold on to the possibility that the relationship is not really over, you will never be able to move on.
When you start reflecting on what you could have done differently, it’s time to redirect your focus. To keep yourself from dwelling on the past, focus on the now. Meditation and exercise can help.
You should also cut off contact with your ex, as much as possible. Obviously, this is difficult when mutual possessions, children, and pets are involved. But, you should not spend time browsing their Facebook feed or trying to contact them.
Conquering Your Depression
Another issue that can keep you from moving on is the depression that you may experience. When he leaves you for the other woman, you could find yourself feeling inadequate and empty inside.
It’s easy to fill this hole with food or the comfort of strangers. Instead, rely on the previous suggestions. Continue to focus on the present and find ways to occupy your time. Look for new activities to keep you busy.
Coming to Accept What You Cannot Control
The final stage of grief is acceptance. When you finally come to accept the fact that the relationship is over, you are able to begin moving forward. Though, the pain will not completely disappear.
This stage appears suddenly. You will catch yourself having a good time and realize that you’re no longer dwelling on the past as often.
You Need Time and Acceptance to Move On
As much as your heart may hurt right now, you also need to realize that it takes time for your heart to heal. You won’t go through the 5 stages of grief overnight.
He chose the other woman over you, what you need most of all is time. The old saying, time heals all wounds, is only partially true. It’s what you do with that time that helps you heal the wounds.
Even with time, the wound may not fully recover. It may still feel tender when it is pricked or prodded. But, you can move on with your life and learn to love again.
Do Not Hold on to the Past When He Leaves for the Other Woman
Keep these thoughts in mind, if you’re going through this right now. Bookmark this article, pin it, or save it so that you can refer back to it when you need to remember the steps for dealing with your grief over your relationship.
You will first need to understand that it’s not your fault. You cannot continue to blame yourself. Along with realizing that it’s not your fault, you will likely go through denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance.
Of course, the pain will not fully go away. You may still feel the hole in your heart. But, it will become less painful.
You have the power to move on. When your husband leaves you for someone else, there are two main things that you need – time and a busy lifestyle. Keep yourself busy and time will fly by.
As time passes, your old wounds will slowly heal. You will begin to truly live again. You have the strength to move forward when your husband chose another woman over you – you just need a little time.
If you’re dealing with infidelity, there is help available. Along with these tips, make sure that you browse the rest of our blog to learn valuable tips and advice from infidelity experts.
My last breakup lasted three months. We both knew it had to end, but our intense attraction made it nearly impossible to cut ties completely. Each time we got together, I told myself it would be the last time… except it never was. This cycle repeated until I hit my breaking point. The emotional high I felt in the moment with him didn’t make up for the sadness I experienced days later.
Letting go of someone you love can be the scariest and most difficult thing you ever do, even if you know it’s the right move to make. Nothing is better than being in love, so it’s only natural that when you are lucky enough to find love, you do everything in your power to hold on to it.
Recovering from a breakup or divorce can be challenging, but it’s necessary to move forward. Here are 5 ways to heal and find happiness:
1. Give yourself permission to grieve.
While your impulse may be to ignore the pain, suppressing it will only prolong the healing process. Grief is healthy. Yes, suffering is uncomfortable, but it’s important to let yourself feel. The act of crying is scientifically proven to lower stress and elevate your mood.
2. Accept that it’s over.
This may seem obvious, but sadly, many of us cling to a false hope that the other person will come back to us, and things will magically sort themselves out. However, dwelling on something you have no control over will only add to your misery. Sure, you may get back together one day down the line, but it’s best to assume you won’t, and prepare to move on.“Acceptance grounds you in what is true, which is where you have to start for any true effectiveness, happiness, or healing,” says Rick Hanson, Ph.D. “Acceptance is the foundation of wisdom and inner peace.”
3. Distance yourself and get rid of relationship reminders.
It’s helpful to think of this time as a cleanse. Many people have a hard time letting go completely and stay in touch, regardless of how much it hurts. Cutting off contact, at least temporarily, is essential for your mental well-being. Also, get rid of the tangible reminders—pictures, clothes, and songs—that can trigger nostalgia.“Even if the split is amicable, it’s important you both go your own way and stop leaning on each other because that keeps you emotionally and energetically tied,” says life coach Christine Hassler, relationship expert and frequent contributor to Mastin Kipp’s Daily Love. “You prolong your healing process and may be preventing learning the lessons you need to learn by continuing to have contact.”
4. Don’t relive all the happy memories.
Remember the reasons why you broke up. Glorifying the past will do nothing but hurt you. It’s hard to think logically when you get swept up in such intense emotions, so when you catch yourself reminiscing about your ex, shift your focus elsewhere. Keep busy and find ways to distract yourself.“Join a running group, find an intramural team, play basketball at a nearby park,” eHarmony experts advise.
“Even taking your dog for more walks is good for both the body and soul. A little fresh air can go a long way when your brain is taxed and your heart is weary.”
Any time I’m feeling vulnerable or second-guessing my decision, I write down a list of reasons why we broke up and reread it.
5. Remain optimistic and have faith you will find love again.
When you let go of someone who was bad for you, you make room in your life for new people and new possibilities. Starting over can be scary—you may fear being vulnerable or getting hurt again—but it is only when you truly let go that a new love can come in. Prepare yourself by staying positive and focusing on what you really want, and you will ultimately find a healthier, deeper love.
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The bro code; man code; man law. These tenets go by many names, but the fact is: every man should have a code .
A code that not only applies to the way in which he conducts himself, but also in which he interacts with his fellow men. Since there could be dozens of possible rules in the entire bro code, I’ve narrowed it down to 11 key tenets that apply to seduction.
This set of rules is not written in stone (yet), but I think it’s a good set of guidelines to ensure maximum cohesion among men, and maximum satisfaction within the individual.
So here they are…
Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.
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You’ve searched long and hard for someone who will just tell you the truth You’re search ends here! You’re about to discover 5 signs she is having sex with another guy.
She’s having sex with another guy!
You wouldn’t be on this page right now if you thought she wasn’t…
Stop wrecking your brain trying to figure it out.
Don’t waste any more time being in your head about this!
If you believe she’s having sex with another guy and all you want is proof…
You’ve come to the right place!
It’s time for you to stop wondering and worrying and start dealing with the facts.
Life is just too short to live this way.
All you want is someone who will give it to you straight, right?
That’s exactly what we do here.
You don’t want to believe it…
It’s shocking to think your girl is capable of the kind of deception you only expect from an enemy.
I had no idea my girl could do that to me either.
Imagine your girl going out and sharing intimate moments with another guy and then acting like nothing has happened when she sees you.
That’s exactly what happened to me…
It was infuriating, painful and frustrating.
Frustrating, because you know something is off, but you don’t know exactly what is.
“The one thing WORSE than finding out your girl is cheating on you is SUSPECTING she is with NO proof!”
But that’s all about to change!
(i.e. It’s the thing I used to catch my girl cheating on me)
She Is Having Sex With Another Guy
Make no mistake about it…
You’re about to get to the bottom of it.
Things are sure to change if your partner is having sex with another man.
There’s just no way around it.
What are the specific signs?
I’m glad you asked…
Because you’re in the right place to find out!
One sign was when she started working longer hours.
That was a dead giveaway…
At the time, I guess I was naive in a lot of ways.
Besides that, I just didn’t think someone who I had grown to love and trust, could do me that way.
Boy…. was I wrong!
Finding out the truth could change your life forever exactly the way it did mine.
The next step will bring us much closer to uncovering the truth.
Is She Having Sex With Another Man
You can forget about getting her to confess!
It’s not going to happen.
You won’t need her to.
You’re about to discover (5) signs she is having sex with another guy.
If she’s having sex with another guy it will show.
How could it not?
Pay attention and you will see.
Her behavior patterns will change.
Her attitude towards you will also change in one way or another.
At this point, you probably have more questions than answers.
But this will soon change!
You’re about to find out the real deal.
Let’s take a closer look at her behavior.
She Is Sleeping With Someone Else
It happens more often than you think.
I’m not proud to say this, but I’ve been on both sides of the fence.
I’ve cheated while in a relationship and I’ve been cheated on.
Let’s make it clear…
But my experience will help me to help you recognize the signs.
I’ve been in your shoes, but I’ve also been the guy women would leave their men to see.
I know the signs you need to look for and I know how you can catch her cheating red-handed, despite her every attempt to act in secrecy.
She leaves behind many clues.
How To Know When She’s Cheating On You
Close your eyes and imagine…
You probably don’t want to get a mental picture of your woman sharing intimate moments with another guy.
So, let’s scratch that idea and just jump right into it.
Most men could never imagine their woman would cheat on them.
They allow their inflated ego to get in the way.
The signs are always there!
You just have to know where to look and not deny their existence.
Some signs are so obvious they’re actually right under your nose.
Let’s take a look to see what they are.
5 Signs She Is Having Sex With Another Guy
Her Behavior Changes!
But what you probably don’t know is why
Why does it change?
The real reason why it changes is because she starts comparing you to the other guy.
Her actions and reactions are based on comparisons.
If she’s sexually involved with another guy you can expect her to start playing the comparison game.
Her behavior will become uncharacteristic.
This is why you feel you don’t know who she is anymore.
Her Attitude Towards Sex Changes!
There’s no choice for her but to compare your sexual exploits to his.
If she enjoys sex with him she will become critical of your sexual performance.
It will become less frequent and uninspiring even if she never complained before.
If she likes it slow and passionate she may now want it faster and harder.
This is a classic sign.
She Becomes Disrespectful!
You can look for her to become increasingly disrespectful the more she desires to have sex with the other guy.
You can look for her to complain about things she never complained about before.
She will become more critical and disrespectful than ever.
Ever heard of the theory of relativity?
When a woman is sexually active with another man this is exactly what happens.
She relates sex with you to sex with him.
This is just how it works!It always results in less intimacy in the bedroom.
If he’s aggressive in bed and she likes it, she will find your being passionate with her during sex a big turnoff and vise versa.
A good rule of thumb is that sudden changes in the bedroom usually indicate a new partner.
Sign #5 She Becomes Distant!
This is perhaps the most confusing part of it all. You may think it’s stress or pressure from work that has her so indifferent.
Cheating breeds a certain kind of guilt that will cause her to distance herself from you.
Be on the lookout for these (5) signs she is having sex with another guy because they are reliable signals your women is sexually involved with another man.
I may not be a great writer, but when I read something that appeals to me, I try to understand why.
Nope, don’t take her back. She left you just because she thought she found something better, so she’ll almost definitely do it again. Go ahead and follow her idea, and find someone better than her.
This is excellent advice. If someone leaves you for someone else — or you discover that someone already was getting their ducks in a row to make or force an exit, while keeping you 100% in the dark — that person will certainly do it again. There are just some people who, when things turn temporarily bad, start looking for someone — anyone — who will take them so they can make their exit, leaving their partners behind. This is, of course, extremely dishonest, but I’ve lived it and I’ve seen it happen.
She made the choice to throw everything you had away and risk it for a guy she had a crush on for a short period of time. That was the risk she took. She should know better that you won’t be there to take her back because who’s to say this won’t happen again? Crushes are normal while in relationships it’s whether you act on it and are willing to throw everything away for this one chance. She felt that everything you had was worth giving up for this guy. Don’t let her come back. She hurt you and your relationship. It’ll never be the same.
I’m a girl who has had a few crushes on my five year relationship. Didn’t leave my man because I love him and our relationship and everything we’ve shared together.
Again, supremely excellent advice. This advice-giving woman is wise, probably beyond her years. She describes the typical case of the pole-vault affair — well-documented in Women’s Infidelity, yet not the exclusive province of women — where the cheating partner makes themself available to other people, anyone, until someone bites, giving them the attention they craved but couldn’t get during a tough time in their committed relationship.
Ordinary decent people in committed relationships develop crushes all the time — the difference between them and dishonest cheaters is how they respond to the crush.
Ordinary decent people understand, and they work problems out with their partners; if there is an unsurmountable problem, they will seek to end the relationship first, before finding comfort in the arms of another person.
The cheater, on the other hand, distances themselves from their partner while making themselves available to others — that is, either signaling to or pursuing other potential partners — until someone bites. This someone is usually an unscrupulous and desperate type, who couldn’t get anyone else, not even from the bottom of the barrel.
Unsurprisingly (you’ll soon get why), in that category we have people who are repulsive, who are extremely insecure, or who are frequently considered creepy by others. This explains quite well how anyone who has seen an affair unfold, often notes how disgusting the “other person” is, compared to the cheated partner. Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger’s mistress and compare her to his wife, if you want a pretty good example of this effect in action.
If you think about it, this effect stands to reason. This category of “other people” just can’t get any good person to be with them, because they just don’t have or offer the value (as people, as partners, as confidantes, you name it) that good people would instantly recognize and be attracted to. And it’s also the case that people who have affairs usually don’t have many options either — decent people who feel that they are worth something wouldn’t even give them the time of day. If you think about it. someone willing to lie to and cheat on their partner, and someone who is repulsive (inside, outside, or both) are actually the perfect match for each other — none of those two are capable of giving themselves self-worth that they don’t have to begin with.
Crucially, often it is said that the cheater “should not be blamed” because “it just happened”, or “I couldn’t help it”, or “I wasn’t aware that this was happening”. This is a common myth, predicated on this false belief that only Machiavellian, consciously machinated evil, qualifies as actual wrongdoing. The truth couldn’t be further from that. It need not be the case that the dishonest person be consciously aware of what he/she is doing — on the contrary, this process is entirely unconscious. It is only actually people who are conscious and self-aware of their feelings, that don’t succumb to them, when their feelings would make them do something wrong. It is in fact consciousness and self-awareness of one’s own emotions and reactions — the subjugation of mindless animal desire to the neocortex — that is the prerequisite for self-control. That is as true of the date-rape drug rapist as it is of the common cheater. As a general rule, wrongdoing does not need to be consciously Machiavellian to be evil. It just needs to be wrongdoing.
The way this Redditor ends her comment is simply perfect. I really like it, because it speaks to my own experiences of having remained loyal even during the worst times of many of my own relationships. I’m going to repeat it for emphasis:
I’m a girl who has had a few crushes on my five year relationship. Didn’t leave my man because I love him and our relationship and everything we’ve shared together.
That’s very much right. This feat is accomplished daily by millions upon millions of people in committed relationships, who will face temptation everywhere they go. This brilliant Redditor is one of them. I have been one of them.
What distinguishes good people from low-quality people isn’t how they act when they are happy and fulfilled. It’s how they respond when temptation appears. Low-quality people lie, cheat and betray. Good people do the right thing.
Unless you have a severe mental disorder, it really isn’t all that out of the ordinary to do the right thing.
I know that break-ups are painful because I was subjected to one. I didn’t know how to feel about it and I wasn’t sure of my own thoughts running through my head.
All you can do is contemplate your own painful thoughts and his thoughts as well.
You start wondering whether he is going to regret letting you go or continue living as if nothing had happened.
There are many reasons why he will regret the decision of letting you go and you have every right to think so.
One Day, Someone Will Thank You For Letting Me Go
November 20, 2020
In most cases, men act driven by their impulses and that is the main reason why they eventually end up regretting something they’ve done impulsively.
For example, his impulse tells him that there are plenty other women who are more attractive and driven by his impulse, he starts to search for that perfect woman in order to realize that the perfect woman does not exist.
Even though he may find a more attractive woman, he will not be satisfied because she will lack other qualities you had.
If a man lets his instincts dictate his feelings, he will make a huge mistake and regret losing you.
Here are the most common reasons a man will regret letting you go:
You Were Stupid For Letting Her Go
He didn’t like one of your flaws and then he realized other women had many more
Perhaps he didn’t like the way you’re stubborn about some things and his impulses tell him that there are other women who are not that stubborn.
Soon, he regrets the decision of letting you go because he realizes that other women are both stubborn and annoying.
He wishes he had known what a good woman you were. His impulses lured him into making the mistake of his life where he realizes that now he will have to accept not just one flaw but a whole package of flaws. He will blame himself for such wrong thoughts and hastiness.
He realized that he is the one to blame
There’s nothing more annoying than realizing that you were the one who fucked it up.
You Were Stupid For Letting Her Go
When he realizes that he is the one to blame for what happened, he will not be able to live with it.
It will haunt him day and night and he will be unable to sleep because of it.
Don’t let his pretense make you think that he is doing just fine without you (because men are really good at this).
He will blame himself for not appreciating such a good woman he once had.
And he will realize that in the near future he will not be able to replace you with another one.
He will realize that you are irreplaceable and it will make him feel like shit.
He realized that he had false priorities
When he was with you, he didn’t bother making you his priority. He neglected you in every sense of neglecting someone, in order to pay attention to other priorities he had.
Now that you’re gone, he realizes that his priorities mean nothing to him now you’re not here.
He will torture himself over this fact and will never forgive himself for making such a stupid mistake as he did.
He will be aware of that and even if calls you, you will tell him that he no longer exists on your priority list.
He will regret not making you his priority because you were everything that mattered to him. He will regret losing someone who actually cared about him a lot.
He knows you’ll find someone who will treat you better than him
Men are really competitive in almost every aspect of their life. When it comes to love, they always want to be those who will overshadow other men.
They want to feel like they are the best thing that ever happened to you and that you chose them for their qualities.
Once they succeed at it, they most often forget to maintain what they have fought for.
They take you for granted and once you’re gone they simply cannot stand the fact that someone else will treat you better than them.
They will know that you deserve someone better than them and because of that, they will be mad at themselves because they failed at it.
He will realize that you were the best he ever had
It is really painful when you realize that the person you let go was the best fit for you.
In search of something wild and new, he will realize what he had left behind him.
He will regret not fighting to keep you once he had a chance because no matter how long he keeps searching, he subconsciously knows that he will never find someone like you.